{"id":688,"date":"2013-05-09T00:06:41","date_gmt":"2013-05-09T05:06:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mentalhealth-online.com\/mentalhealth\/?p=688"},"modified":"2013-06-03T01:01:31","modified_gmt":"2013-06-03T06:01:31","slug":"love-yourself-1-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mentalhealth-online.com\/mentalhealth\/love-yourself-1-way\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Yourself:  Embrace Your Past to Love Yourself!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It is a truism:\u00c2\u00a0 If you do not respect yourself, nobody will. Stated differently, if you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t <a href=\"https:\/\/mentalhealth-online.com\/mentalhealth\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/heart-hands.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-308\" style=\"border: 2px solid black; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;\" title=\"Love Yourself - Embrace the Past\" alt=\"Love Yourself - Embrace the Past\" src=\"https:\/\/mentalhealth-online.com\/mentalhealth\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/heart-hands-300x225.jpg\" width=\"242\" height=\"181\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mentalhealth-online.com\/mentalhealth\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/heart-hands-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mentalhealth-online.com\/mentalhealth\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/heart-hands-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 242px) 100vw, 242px\" \/><\/a><i>love<\/i> yourself, how are you going to get anybody to love you? You &#8212; and you alone &#8212; <a title=\"The Life Coach Dr., Dr. Marlene Shiple, for modeling self-love\" href=\"http:\/\/thelifecoachdr.com\/coach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">provide the model<\/a> for how others treat you.<\/p>\n<p>So here are is one key way to learn to love yourself:<\/p>\n<p>Embrace your past. Certainly, you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve had a heartbreaks in your past. However, whatever is in the past, it is important to leave it in the past. The past is past.\u00c2\u00a0 There is little that you can do to change it.<\/p>\n<p>Allow yourself to learn that the past has made you the person that you are today. Rather than regretting the past, <a title=\"The Life Coach Dr., Marlene Shiple, Ph.D., for self-acceptance &amp; self-love\" href=\"http:\/\/thelifecoachdr.com\/coach\/coaching-products\/acceptance\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">endeavor to learn<\/a> from what has occurred in your past.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to change, be clear with yourself.\u00c2\u00a0 While you cannot change what has occurred in the past, what you <strong>CAN change<\/strong> is the present &#8212; the here and now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is a truism:\u00c2\u00a0 If you do not respect yourself, nobody will. Stated differently, if you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t love yourself, how are you going to get anybody to love you? You &#8212; and you alone &#8212; provide the model for how others treat you. So here are is one key way to learn to love yourself: [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,11,4],"tags":[62,61,63,64,60],"class_list":["post-688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-emotional-healing","category-life-coaching","category-mental-healing","tag-change","tag-love-yourself","tag-past","tag-present","tag-self-love"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Love Yourself: Embrace Your Past to Love Yourself! | Dr. Marlene Shiple<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/mentalhealth-online.com\/mentalhealth\/love-yourself-1-way\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Love Yourself: Embrace Your Past to Love Yourself! | Dr. Marlene Shiple\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"It is a truism:\u00c2\u00a0 If you do not respect yourself, nobody will. 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